The Real Reason Why The Narcissist Punishes You
This is where perpetual victims who are very unconscious go into overdrive. They play the righteous “parent” against the narcissist – they fight back, join Groups, spew damnation, research and share everything they can about narcissists trying to call them out and expose them.
But despite all their highly charged efforts they can never hold the narcissist accountable, they never feel vindicated and they don’t get better.
The reason being – they are NOT meant to heal that way …
Because that orientation is a completely wrong turn away from our healing and only creates a deeper cementing into victimisation.
Missing the Message or Getting it
The Victim Model creates ongoing trauma, powerlessness and blaming the narcissist.
In all my years helping people Thrive after narcissistic abuse, I have never seen one person operating in this model get better. In stark contrast I have seen them just get addicted to information about abusers, and joining in with other people who are also obsessed with finding out and sharing everything they can about narcissists.
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