The Real Reason Why The Narcissist Punishes You
The narcissist knows that by hitting these weakspots that you are crippled emotionally and this causes you to hand power over by regressing into reactivity and helplessness and powerlessness.
The narcissist discovered the following at a very early age – deliver low blows that are people’s “chinks” and you can control them.
And it works every time, because when we have our own unhealed, unfinished childhood business we become “that child” emotionally in the fray. We try to make the narcissist change his or her opinion of us. We try to get them to “take it back”, and we try to make him or her “get” how wrong that statement / behaviour / action was.
We pretend we are the parent trying to get a narcissist to behave like a mature, respectful adult and be “decent”.
But that is NOWHERE near the REAL truth …
This is the truth … Oh boy this is the truth …
The TRUTH is we have regressed back to the child at the age of our unhealed wounds, and we are assigning the narcissist as the parent to FIX it this time.
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