How To Restore Your Trust Again After Narcissistic Abuse
Which meant that our lives depended on these people to “do the right thing” … or that what was we truly believed.
And we were in serious trouble when they didn’t because we had so much pinned on them.
This describes both my relationships with narcissists. I was hugely invested, hugely enmeshed and suffered massive losses on many levels because I NEEDED to trust these men for my life to be healthy, secure and go ahead.
And looking back with what I know now, and my own levels of development … back then I allowed the enmeshments and takeovers in so many areas in my life because I feared I could not survive alone.
At that stage of my journey, I was NOT a source of love, approval, security, and survival to myself. I totally believed (ancient female DNA wounding) that without a man I was no-one and without a man I could not survive.
Thank goodness those wounds are gone now and there is no NEED for me to need a man for fun, joy, travel, life experiences, love, approval or survival or security.
Due to full self-partnering and the up-leveling of those crippling wounds that were causing me to hand over my power and my lifetime and time again, I am now an adult woman in my own body generating my own wonderful life.
I am no longer a broken child posing as a woman really subconsciously looking for a man to be my “parent”.
What was totally necessary for me, was a shifting of core beliefs that Life was NOT happening from the outside in … it needed to happen from the inside out … THEN Life on the outside could match because I would be showing up in ways that were not generating more of my wounds, but instead would be reflecting the new beliefs about empowering and trusting myself.
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