5. BROKE ON PURPOSE
This parasite has their language on fleek when it comes to excuses about not having money or a job. They don’t even want to do the work to find work. Let’s call a spade a spade here—they’re sponging off of you.
I hope the secret language isn’t so secret anymore. The covert narcissist isn’t openly aggressive, but the harm is still the same and often not recognized until you’ve already trusted them (the covert narcissist is “nice” after all)…and then you suddenly and painfully realize years later the monster—the energy vampire—the narcissist behind the mask.
This article is based on my personal experience with narcissists. The emotional damage (and even physical abuse) from a narcissist is not an easy experience to suddenly overcome and “get over.” The effects are long lasting and I can only recommend to educate yourself. Knowledge is powerful, but only when you know how to use it. You deserve healthy and loving relationships.